[–] Teutonic-Pride 3 points 65 points (+68|-3) ago 

They are easy prey, so I can understand why some guys fall for them. Trust me on this: OP is 100%right,you will never have a happy relationship. Never. Also, they usually fail as mothers, and you will either have a spoiled or a neurotic brat (or both) to take care off.

[–] 17907027? 0 points 123 points (+123|-0) ago 

Dating a single mother is like continuing from someone else’s saved game...

[–] TheSeer 1 points 22 points (+23|-1) ago 

I, err, a friend of mine has coached a lot of children. And the children of single mothers... You can spot them, after coaching them for a while. You don't have to ask about their personal situation, to know, IOW. Broken homes you can tell too. But dealing with parents is the biggest pain, in coaching and single moms, in that regard, are definitely the worst! You will give the child constructive criticism, on how to improve, and the mother will contradict you, both to your face and to the child!

"Johnny needs to be a better team player. If he improves in that one aspect, he can be really good!"

"Well I think Johnny is already the bestest team player there is. Aren't you, Johnny?"

[–] LostandFound 1 points 19 points (+20|-1) ago 

Oh man ... that's one of the best analogies I have read in a while

[–] KoKansei 0 points 17 points (+17|-0) ago 

And there's semen on the memory card.

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[–] chirogonemd 0 points 19 points (+19|-0) ago 

One thing I have heard from friends who have dated single mothers is that they never truly get over the man who abandoned them. It's like a runaway father complex. They always have this fixation on how they messed up, and what they could have done to "keep him". I've also heard it is especially bad if they drink.

[–] robot7247 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

How about the ones that abandon the man? That's what my mom did. She got tired of his drunken beat downs.

[–] Drunkenst 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

So what makes that different from any other (every other) unhappy relationship?

[–] Shyster 4 points -1 points (+3|-4) ago 

And you can fist them. :)

[–] LazyJello9 9 points 63 points (+72|-9) ago 

Should probably clarify OP. Not all Single Mothers are undateable. It all comes down to why they are single.

Would you abandon a woman and child if he husband and the childs father were murdered by a nigger? Not really fair there. That woman is at no fault.

Dont date degenerate single mothers, but you can certaintly marry and breed with a widow and raise a fallen fathers child.

I see literally no problem with another man raising my children, caring for my wife and having his own children with her... were i to die today, murdered by some nigger.

[–] billstickers420 0 points 56 points (+56|-0) ago 

Widows are always an exception to the single mother rule, this is pretty much universal unless you're a real asshole.

[–] sitrep 0 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago 

What about black widows?

[–] KoKansei 0 points 26 points (+26|-0) ago 

That's why the term "widow" has existed for hundreds of years while "single mother" was pushed into the lexicon much later. Being a widow is respectable - pitiable even. Being a single mother should never be.

[–] My10thaccount [S] 1 points 8 points (+9|-1) ago 

I guess there's some circumstances where I might be okay but generally speaking I think it's a bad idea

[–] LazyJello9 0 points 11 points (+11|-0) ago 

Generally speaking you are correct.

[–] flash6996 5 points 6 points (+11|-5) ago 

Exactly. I married a woman with 2 kids by a guy that she caught in bed with her best friend. The kids are both teens and the oldest is starting college this fall. My wife doesn't hate men and is a hard worker and VERY conservative, like me.

[–] BeingReplaced 0 points 38 points (+38|-0) ago  (edited ago)

I can't imagine raising a child that isn't mine. Maybe if it was my best friends kids if he died

At least you have learnt from your mistake though op. Life is all about learning.

[–] jewish_nigger_faggot 0 points 35 points (+35|-0) ago 

I could raise a nephew for sure.

[–] Saulspergmin 1 points 12 points (+13|-1) ago 

If it's got a good chunk of your DNA in it it's probably worth protecting. Unless it's a half breed nigger. Nope the fuck out of that.

[–] SIayfire122 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

Without a doubt. I would very quickly become a single father if that's what was necessary for their wellbeing. Fortunately though, I have married sisters that could take them in.

[–] ruck_feddit 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

You'd already likely be the godparent to a nephew. That's not weird at all since there's no mom/dad confusion. Now, if you had to marry your brother's wife to do it? Mel probably did it (well, the opposite) in The Patriot, so there could be circumstances when it's not that weird.

[–] ruck_feddit 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

You're right. A widow is the other possible exception. It's still not for a dick like me, but it's probably the right thing to do under specific widow circumstances.

[–] Had 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

I am looking into adopting for one reason, who would I want raising my boys if my wife and I both died in a car crash. I would hope someone like me takes them in and raises them to be good men. Fortunately for me, I have a good brother who is a family man and would take my kids without hesitation, but not everyone is as fortunate as I am.

If I want others to do a thing, why wouldn't I do it myself? I would be a hypocrite if I didn't actually look into this and try to see if I can help.

[–] skidder 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Just had a couple down the road get murdered by an 11 yo they adopted. Orphaned their 15yo daughter. Sure it's unlikely, but their biological daughter is without parents now.

[–] DontBeRacist 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

I had a friend with a 6 year old son and was hanging with them for 2 years, so he made it up to 8. I loved that kid almost like he was my own kid.

[–] Fancy451 0 points 33 points (+33|-0) ago 

my mother was a single mom. she grabbed the biggest meanest man she could find and gold dug her way until he died of massive heart attack at 62. because she took better care of her 8 horses than she did him.

im going to let her starve to death on that farm with her fucking horses.

[–] Zacchaeus 2 points 16 points (+18|-2) ago 

Hey, at least youre not bitter or anything.

[–] thelma 0 points 6 points (+6|-0) ago 

Dead at 62 ?

Sounds OK

[–] TheSeer 3 points 0 points (+3|-3) ago 

He probably doesn't think the Earth is flat either. Sounds like he turned out alright!

[–] VoatieMcVoatFace 1 points 15 points (+16|-1) ago 

Im a single dad with two great kids. I made a bad choice in the female department so needless to say I popped smoke fought for and gained full custody of my two kids. Ive been single for the past 5 years and its been so nice. Im raising my kids right and its crazy to see all these single moms try and cling to me with play dates and other get togethers. They are desperate for some man to rescue them from their hell. Shit I love raising my kids, we do all kinds of stuff as a family. They see their mom of course but they know where they will get the best while growing up. Moral of the story.

Don't stick your dick in crazy.

[–] 475677 1 points 6 points (+7|-1) ago 

I'm in the same boat but with one kid and 4 years of being single. Mothers will use their children as a way in and try to throw themselves at me. It's flattering but equally disgusting as you can tell they're pieces of shit.

The really shitty thing for me though is knowing that as a single father I'm not much better than them and I question if I even have the right to seek out a childless woman. It's not like it would be any different for them as it would be for me if the positions were reversed and I don't want to pump and dump or lead them on either. I've straight up been told that we could just have fun but I'm not interested in playing into their whoredom and destroying my self worth as well. Worse still the older I get the worse the options out there are so I've had to make peace with being alone and focusing on my kid. I know I'm going to raise her into a great adult but I'd be lying if I said I didn't miss having a significant other I could love. It's not just the sex either, it's everything else and the really sad thing is with the state of women out there I'm made to feel like a faggot for being a romantic instead of wanting to treat them like whores and supporting their offspring.

[–] jclss99 1 points 1 points (+2|-1) ago 

I'm at the start of where you're at to a point, except no kids. Wife abandoned 2 months ago. It's like people are talking, because I've been getting more flirting from women all over at work and such. Though, maybe I wasn't paying attention before. Losing best friend and companion to go do stuff with whenever sucks. Getting laid really isn't a concern. Still fresh so the urge isn't there because I know it'd just feel empty afterwards. I had my time with that in early 20s, and later 20's kinda grew out of that and into either relationships or steady FWB arrangements. Was just filling that void for mutual benefit, really. Kind of like dating, but with the understanding there wasn't a long term future. I liked those. Probably will fall back into that once divorce happens. I don't want empty sex, and I don't want to get back into a serious relationship anytime soon. You're right about available women in 30's seeming thirsty for certain though. Same as you, I'm going to be looking for the reason they are available. Mine is: My wife was unfaithful and a mid-tier alcoholic. Functional, but it was bad every night. Best friends when sober, but no memory of the bad times. Wears over 8 years, and distance just grew further and further. I still don't understand guys pursuing married women, or vice versa. It was never on my mind as an option when I was on either side of the fence. Leave relationship if you think it's that bad. Always was an option income wise for both parties.

[–] VoatieMcVoatFace 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

You'll find that good woman and of not make sure your daughter is a good woman. Playing in the single mom we can just have fun bullshit can get interesting with enough wine. Lol

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[–] 475677 0 points 5 points (+5|-0) ago 

Never get the snip. Fertility makes a hell of a difference in people, their levels of attraction and even the way they smell. Women can pick up on such things at a subconscious level and will treat you like the beta you surgically became.

Good on you for getting away from the ex and getting custody of your kids though. Raise them right and make the future a better place for everyone.

[–] VoatieMcVoatFace 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

I think bringing in a better mother figure is a must, I just haven't found the shiniest turd in the bowl yet. Kids are still young enough I have time to choose wisely. Shitty part about the whole thing is dating these women and having to waste my money. Good luck though, its a fucking jungle out there.

[–] TheKalergiFan 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

because the complications can suck if you are unlucky

you mean like if they didn't do it right and you have another kid lol

[–] MortonLoothorKodos 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Single father >>> single mother.

[–] VoatieMcVoatFace 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

I don't think being a single father is the same as being a single mother. I don't get child support the ex weaseled her way out of that, I dont get state aid because white male. As far as being in a financial bind that's not been a real problem, I make 6 figures on a good year and almost that much on a year. I can provide all that my kids need. I still get what I need from women i just don't invite them over ill take them to a hotel or end up back at their place. I got my kids that's all I wanted. I dont need no woman to help raise them, but it would be nice.

[–] PatriotLady1 0 points 12 points (+12|-0) ago 

Just make sure you don't mix your genes with hers. The baby will be worthless. Don't count on your superior alpha genes to overcome her single mother male hatred ideology.

[–] Apexbreed 0 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago 

Spent three months of my life with a single mom of two. Divorced from a tweaker. She was a fucking train wreck and shamelessly spent my money. I found myself supporting her, even though she was receiving child support, alimony, and every welfare program possible. She had no limits to her spending either. Such a good red pill for me. It was my absolute last blue pill relationship, and I'm actually thankful for the life lesson. She was hot af and young (had both kids before 18), so I was just thinking with my dick. She did anything and everything sexually. Still not worth it

Don't fucking do it, guys. Think with your brains and not your dicks. It could have ended up so much worse for me. Imagine my life if I got her pregnant. She swore she was on BC pills, but I always pulled out anyway. Never saw her take pill or saw the pills in her apartment anywhere. Bullet dodged. Learn from my mistakes, fellas. Don't fucking do it.

[–] FSHLLtOW 0 points 2 points (+2|-0) ago 

Never ever trust them!

And something else, if she will do anything sexually why would you ever bust your nut in the vage? Guaranteed she will not get knocked up if you blow it in her mouth!

Problem solved.

[–] Apexbreed 0 points 1 points (+1|-0) ago 

Absolutely right

[–] prairie 0 points 0 points (+0|-0) ago 

Guaranteed she will not get knocked up if you blow it in her mouth!

Unless she transplants it. But where's the benefit in that? Other than 18 years of child support...

[–] vastrightwing 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

Also, once a white girl goes black, they can never go back.

[–] My10thaccount [S] 1 points 6 points (+7|-1) ago 

Once you go black you're dead

[–] vastrightwing 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

Nichole, is that true?

Nichole, are you there?

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