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[–] Caesarkid1 3 points 81 points (+84|-3) ago 

You need to very carefully extract yourself from the relationship.

She is being sexist and attempting to shame you into compliance.

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[–] L_Etranger [S] 0 points 21 points (+21|-0) ago 

Yeah, the tactics seemed sleazy even if she wasn't really wrong to be upset.

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[–] Caesarkid1 2 points 25 points (+27|-2) ago 

"I feel [emotion] because [reason]!" is a logical conversation while "You're Mansplaining to me!" displays either an unwillingness to discuss issues or the inability to do so and it shows complete and total disrespect towards you.

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[–] gregorypeckerwood 0 points 17 points (+17|-0) ago 

Mansplain that you're walking out the door

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[–] Tiny-Tank 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Oh no, the punjabi? That was quick. I would make the typical Voat-White-Purity post but white girls are usually worse for it. Don't just back off, you've got nothing to lose so just stand up to her. Tell her you don't put up with that neo-marxist identitarian name calling but if she wants to have a civilized discussion about your possible fuck-up then you'd be glad to.

I realize this is 4 hours late, but that's the best I can do. Good luck.

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[–] BAAC 1 point 6 points (+7|-1) ago 

Yeah - that's a bullshit control word. It's a word used when they are too weak/stupid/non-assertive to hold their own in a discussion. Her response should be: 'Shut the fuck up for a minute while I finish my sentence.' You hear that, you have a keeper.

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[–] performance ago 

You think a girl saying that to you is a good thing? She's showing you disrespect. That shit needs to be shut down asap. A relationship is a balance of respect from both sides.

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[–] L_Etranger [S] 0 points 16 points (+16|-0) ago 

My instinct too. I wouldn't object to her getting upset with me over the exchange and would probably apologize. But this word makes me think she objects less to the content and more the existence of my opinion.

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[–] VIP740 0 points 4 points (+4|-0) ago 

I don't know what kind of relationship you have, but it may be worth explaining this to her. If being a man really is a problem for her, yeah I'd move on and not look back.

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[–] FireSauce ago 

I would have called her right after receiving that text and dove right into the whole mansplaining shit. Them later on if she takes it well explain how the words you used weren't exactly right. Nip it in the butt. women are swayed easily if your suave about it, especially since she's your girlfriend. If that doesn't work then ease out.

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[–] L_Etranger [S] 0 points 13 points (+13|-0) ago 

Yeah, I'd seen a couple other SJW warning signs. This is kinda the nail in the coffin.

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[–] Goathammer 0 points 15 points (+15|-0) ago 

*Chick you were dating.

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[–] Biscuitbaiter 0 points 15 points (+15|-0) ago 

Bail out.

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder 0 points 9 points (+9|-0) ago 

Run

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[–] individualin1984 0 points 3 points (+3|-0) ago 

This is the answer. Do not look back just run. The risk from someone who believes that shit is way to high for fucking up the rest of your life. To her you are not human you are all the embodiments of male hate she has been consuming.

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[–] toobaditworks 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Collect all your things first. Then run. I made the mistake and forgot some of stuff at a ex's house. Can't get that shit back sometimes.

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[–] Scruffy_Nerfherder 0 points 1 point (+1|-0) ago 

Better to lose your shit than your soul.

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[–] piratse 0 points 8 points (+8|-0) ago 

I wouldn't even think twice. Literally would dump her immediately! I broke up with a girl 30 seconds after she tried to use feministsplaining on me.

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[–] Le_Squish 1 point 6 points (+7|-1) ago 

Dump it.

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